Thursday, October 16, 2008

Feedback to warren 16/10 post

Agreed with Warren
N matter it is a challenge or dream, it is normal when we have the determination to continue pursuing it. Well, in aspect of relationship especially, even at the end of the day, you got the worst feedback ever, it’s all right. At least you did tried. It satisfies you more than enough already, yea? You’ve contributed your best effort to achieve it. Most people would say pursuing something which you know its impossible and you got nothing in return at the end of the day. BO TAT. In fact, for those who understand this theory, the wouldn’t care what are the results will be. An impossible for many, it might be a possible for you. Only you maybe. Wouldn’t that enough? You need any back ups to support? Nah. I don’t think so. Take all that with positive minds, and eventually things will be easier for you. Remember, to chase after a dream that you desire is never call as problem. And yea, a ‘Want’ that due to attractions or outlooks of a person is not what we call a dream. It is an unreasonable challenge in exact. Just by looking at appearance without knowing anything about their characteristics, you can’t just simply judge out the sentence ‘I want her!’. Or maybe just because your friends like her too. The feelings of being tempted eventually exist in most men’s conscious mind. These are the people who for some reason, find satisfaction just by telling themselves. ‘I Want To Win My Friends’. Agree? They take that as a challenge where it’s over after achieving it. It is an insult for those who really have their own dreams to pursue in a correct manner, where there will be appreciation and future can be seen.
Relating to Warren's question, What is my dream in a relationship?

To be honest, I had hesitation asking myself. I even spent few minutes thinking of it before scrolling down to read the next paragraph. Perhaps I hesitate because I dare not even ask myself this question. I had too many dreams in a relationship before, and A failure is what I got in return. Failure in relationship isn't a big deal, but the feelings of being hurt contributed pretty much i-don't-want-to-involve feeling in a relationship anymore. However, this doesn't mean that I don't support those that would wanna determined in something which they already had long-time consideration. I support anyone who willing to sacrifice for a person in your dream just like how I support Warren until today. I am still being supportive of his persistence. =) << a smile for you. Due to certain reasons, I stop pursuing my dream. Tired of progressing is not one of the reason, im sure many would judge that. Literally, I would not say that im regret for not achieving it. Not now nor future. Because part of my positive minds tell me that. Good memories we should keep it forever. While for the bad ones, lets flush it away! =D. of course, every commitment starts with good times. A bad ending doesn’t mean there’s nothing worth to be reminiscing in that kind of commitment. I look at the overall and not only the ending =) When I commit to that person, it shows sign that I had good times with him therefore, love feelings was formed inside me. However, it just failed to work out to deeper status between us. I don’t blame anyone. I don’t blame him either. I still like him as a friend, though at times it reminds me about the good old times every time when I look at him.
Lastly, Quoted from Warren’s post.
-A friend of mine once said to me “All you ever care is about yourself”. No matter how I look at it, that sentence sips deeply into me which then only do I realise how selfish I am.- I'm pretty sure that sentence was from me. =.=" Never knew it could make you stress out terribly by saying so. Anyway, your supportive friend hereby gives you her support again! Don't stop! Don't worry; it's not a dumb decision. =D.

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Personality Test. XD

You Are An ENFP
The Inspirer

You love being around people, and you are deeply committed to your friends.
You are also unconventional, irreverent, and unimpressed by authority and rules.
Incredibly perceptive, you can usually sense if someone has hidden motives.
You use lots of colorful language and expressions. You're quite the storyteller!

In love, you are quite the charmer. And you are definitely willing to risk your heart.
You often don't follow through with your flirting or professed feelings. And you do break a lot of hearts.

At work, you are driven but not a workaholic. You just always seem to enjoy what you do.
You would make an excellent entrepreneur, politician, or journalist.

How you see yourself: compassionate, unselfish, and understanding

When other people don't get you, they see you as: gushy, emotional, and unfocused

What Von means.

What Von Means
You are very hyper. You never slow down, even when it's killing you.
You're the type of person who can be a workaholic during the day... and still have the energy to party all night.
Your energy is definitely a magnet for those around you. People are addicted to your vibe.

You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.
You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you.
At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.
You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.
You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

How Sinful Am I?

Your Deadly Sins
Sloth: 40%

Envy: 20%

Greed: 20%

Pride: 20%

Gluttony: 0%

Lust: 0%

Wrath: 0%

Chance You'll Go to Hell: 14%

You will die while sleeping - and no one will notice.

Love it!