Saturday, October 11, 2008

If u find youself in love with someone who doesn't love u, be gentle with urself. There's nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart....If u find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honoured that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift u cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How u deal with love is how u deal with yourself and all our hearts feel the same pain and joy, even if our lives and ways are different....If u fall in love with another and he/she falls in love with u and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or access blame. Let it go, there is a reason and a meaning. U will know in time. Remember that u do not choose love. Love chooses u. All u can really do is to accept for all its mystery when it comes to ur life. Feel the way it feels u to. Overflowing then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in u. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around u in any way u can.This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love , and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead becomes someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.Remember this and keep it to ur heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons and its own reasons for coming and going.. U cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. U can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it leaves u. But if it chooses to leave from ur heart or from the heart of ur lover, there is nothing u can do and there is nothing u should do.Love always had been and will always be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in ur life. If u keep ur heart open, it will come again...
In conclusion, love is complicated -.-. Don't get involve if not necessary. Love begin, drama begin!
Grabbed from Jennifer Chen. =.=

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Personality Test. XD

You Are An ENFP
The Inspirer

You love being around people, and you are deeply committed to your friends.
You are also unconventional, irreverent, and unimpressed by authority and rules.
Incredibly perceptive, you can usually sense if someone has hidden motives.
You use lots of colorful language and expressions. You're quite the storyteller!

In love, you are quite the charmer. And you are definitely willing to risk your heart.
You often don't follow through with your flirting or professed feelings. And you do break a lot of hearts.

At work, you are driven but not a workaholic. You just always seem to enjoy what you do.
You would make an excellent entrepreneur, politician, or journalist.

How you see yourself: compassionate, unselfish, and understanding

When other people don't get you, they see you as: gushy, emotional, and unfocused

What Von means.

What Von Means
You are very hyper. You never slow down, even when it's killing you.
You're the type of person who can be a workaholic during the day... and still have the energy to party all night.
Your energy is definitely a magnet for those around you. People are addicted to your vibe.

You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.
You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you.
At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.
You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.
You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

How Sinful Am I?

Your Deadly Sins
Sloth: 40%

Envy: 20%

Greed: 20%

Pride: 20%

Gluttony: 0%

Lust: 0%

Wrath: 0%

Chance You'll Go to Hell: 14%

You will die while sleeping - and no one will notice.

Love it!